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Perception: How Our View of the World Shapes Our Reality

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Cambridge Dictionary defines perception as “a belief or opinion, often held by many people and based on how things seem”. People form an opinion about a particular subject based on what they’ve experienced or seen in the past. From those experiences, they form a judgment and it may or may not match with others’ viewpoints. Every person in this world is going through something or other in their life. Based on that, they perceive their surroundings. One day I was walking on my balcony and noticed a bird flying in the sky. Most people, including my sister, think that the bird is free and can go wherever it wants, but has anyone thought about the struggle of that bird? It may struggle daily to find food or a place to rest, especially as the concrete jungle continues to grow. Yes! The bird has freedom to go wherever it wants, however no one knows what the bird feels or thinks. The bird might think about how lucky the humans are, at least they have a roof over their heads! It’s all about h...

Memories: That Light Up the Heart

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“Memories are timeless treasures of the heart.” – Anonymous.  Memories are Special There comes a time in life when the heart feels heavy, and loneliness creeps in. I go into the past and cherish the moments with certain people and places. Those memories help me to relax for a while, and they give me a sense of comfort. Sometimes, those memories are the only things in my life that provide me strength to move forward and stay hopeful in the present time. A few months ago, I lost my pet, but his memories will forever remain in my heart. Along the way I have lost some people too, because life happened. That does not mean that they are gone from my life! They remain alive in my memories and continue to keep my heart warm! It does not matter whether the memories created with them were good or bad; they will always remain with me, hopefully until I die. The beautiful memories created with my pets, people, and places in the past give me a reason to smile. They motivate me to move for...

Meaning of Success: A Personal Perspective

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Meaning of Success Oxford Dictionary defines success as “ the fact that you have achieved something that you want and have been trying to do or get. ”  Simply put, success is an accomplishment that an individual or a group has been striving to achieve.  But the time taken and activities conducted to achieve it can differ from one person to another. Also, the definition of success can vary. For some it could be getting married by the age of 25, for others it can be getting a job, being famous, completing a degree, moving to a new city and so on. There is no one perfect definition of success. Different Perspectives on Success Success is subjective and it varies greatly among individuals. I came across an article published in Thrive Global Publication on Medium, titled “ 25 Definitions of Success from Very Accomplished People ” by Lucas J. Robak. The article shares insights from renowned individuals, each with their own perspective on success. Out of 25, I randomly selec...

Activities That Help Me Recharge

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We all need time in a day to recharge, and that can be done through different activities. For me, here are the list of the activities that me recharge: 1) Listening Music Music feels like therapy, especially at night. I wait for the sun to go down, and everyone to fall asleep to be alone with music. The genre of music depends on my mood. Tonight it’s romantic, other nights it’s item songs, and sometimes it’s pop. With my earphones on, I escape into a world of my own and enjoy the moment. After 30 minutes or an hour, I turn off the music and remove my ear phones. The feeling afterwards is priceless, I feel calm and refreshed. 2) Drawing Mandala I started drawing mandalas during the pandemic, when everything was shut down, including us in our home. Pinterest, the pictures on social media and google inspire me to create a creative mandala. For me, drawing mandalas is also a therapy. But, to make something beautiful, my mind needs to be clear and free of other commitments. It gives ...